2021.11.27 09:27 Otherwise-Day3155 Is it ok if I am exclusively gay (not interested in women in any way, shape or form)?
I am a gay man who is attracted to men and men only and I am wondering if it is valid anymore because recently I have been noticing on social media, lgbtq+ news outlet and youtube, the "concept" that the sexuality of all gay men will change over time or will change because of a sexual experiance with a woman.
I do understand that there are bi men who first came out as gay and later discover the over aspect of there sexuality hence coming out as bi later and I also acknowledge there are some gay identifying men who have sex with women (even though the reason to why escapes me) but what I don't understand is why the generilization ? Not all gay men are like that.
Most gay men are not attracted to women at all and are not open to experiment with or date them but there is this entire narrative that as a gay man, your sexuality will change as you grow or that all you need is to have sex with a woman to stop being gay. And this narrative is only push onto gay men, I never heard it being applied to straight or bi guys (example: "The sexuality of straight or bi men will change over time and they will turn gay or that all they need to do is to have sex with another men to turn 100% gay.") This is never heard of but the concept and generalization of gay men being attracted to women is constantly glorified online
And I cannot stand bi people insisting that everyone is bi and that homosexuality doesn't exist (sometime they will also claim that all gay men have sex with women or secretly desire one) and I find it quite homophobic , just because some gay men are willing to have sex with women does'nt mean that this is the reallity for every single gay man or that all gay men are secretly bisexual.
And I am also tired of the concept of sexual fluidity being pushed onto gay men, not all gay man will turn bisexual at some point of their life, some men are just gay, deal with it. And I also wonder if it is fair to apply the concept of sexual fluidity onto somebody who do not identify as bi or ambrosexual (sexually fluid people). Sexual fluidity is also being used to generalize the concept of gay men turning bi but people will never consider the possibility of queebi/abrosexual turning strictly gay.
But I want to know what you think about the subject ....,if you agree that this narrative is inaccurate and damaging/homophobic ?
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2021.11.27 09:27 LoveofLearningKorean 1000 Days With TXT; What are you grateful for over the 1000 days with TXT?
Whether your are a veteran MOA that's been here all 1000 days, or a baby MOA, I want to wish every MOA a happy 1000 days with TXT!
I had been a causal follower since pre-debut, and became a MOA thanks to CYSM. I am grateful for that song that made me feel heard. In fact, I am grateful for the message of a lot of TXT songs. And for the members who wish to share their stories and walk with us.
I am grateful for To Do which brightens my Mondays. For Soobin's determination. For Yeonjun's authenticity. For Beomgyu's mischievousness. For Taehyun's passion. For Hueningkai's heart of gold.
I am also grateful for the community here and my fellow mod squad members, you make stanning TXT 1000X more fun and I am so happy to be celebrating 1000 days with TXT with you all 💙
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2021.11.27 09:27 BigRussoOnTheButtons (Ds3)(xbox) need help on pontiff plsssss
2021.11.27 09:27 Salt-Which froggy chair
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2021.11.27 09:27 EdVintage Picking flowers in the storm
2021.11.27 09:27 SaddamsKnuckles Lights dimming at idle.
2021.11.27 09:27 EnvoyExtraordinary 1981 DeLorean DMC-12 ...eure Kinder fahr'n da voll drauf ab!
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2021.11.27 09:27 Ped-yuko I wonder how ppl reaction would have been if qin's design was this placeholder one form the lubu spin off
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2021.11.27 09:27 rednemesis337 Penalty charge bus lane England
I received this morning a penalty charge from the council stating I drove in a bus lane. However the picture shows my car NEXT to the bus lane not ON the bus lane. This doesn’t make sense. Just wondering why would I receive this penalty or if this could be an automated system and then by disputing there would be human interaction?
The picture shows a clear separation that there’s a bus lane however could it be because I was so next to it and the camera couldn’t see the separation line that they assume I crossed it?
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2021.11.27 09:27 ShahanoorMamun Cauliflower Still Life Painting. Watercolor Demonstration.
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2021.11.27 09:27 derblauepowerranger Yesssss! Finally 🙌 🤩
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2021.11.27 09:27 Asaka_kmnr Los Angeles-area looters target Home Depot, Bottega Veneta stores on Black Friday: reports
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2021.11.27 09:27 Incamus Julegave hjælp: nevø med (stor) interesse for militær
Nogle der har god idé til gave? Min snart 8 år gamle nevø har fra helt lille haft stor interesse for alt militær. Han har derfor det meste inden for camoflauge tøj, rygsæk, telt, etc.
Han er mere til ting/udstyr end decideret legetøj. Den korte ønskeseddel lød på 'sejt militærtøj - gear' og 'en våbenkuffert i militær' - har kikket på div. hardcase kuffert, men det er lidt kedeligt? (og dyrt hvis det skal være ordenligt)
Vil gerne finde noget sjovt/anderledes/rigtigt udstyr han kan have glæde af. Budget omkring 500-600 kr. Mere for det helt rigtige...
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2021.11.27 09:27 Dew_Killer9000 Some story that happened to me in League
>someone was very toxic
> I took slight offense
>he got political on how he hates the Philippines and refuses to talk in that """disgusting""" language
>ign is named after a honkai impact character
yeah, an average day in league
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2021.11.27 09:27 ShortyStrawz Saving in my game only remembers room location, not progression. How do I change this?
I followed this tutorial on how to make a save game and load game option in my game. If you don't feel like watching it, basically my save system works by telling the game to create an associated txt doccument which stores the number of the room the player is currently in; this number updates everytime the player goes to a new room. I have a menu which if the player selects "load game" will read said txt file for the number and load the player into the corresponding room.
It is a good tutorial, but the tutorial is set up so whenever the player enters a room, it saves the game. I have a level by level 2D platform game with a world map; I want the game to auto save only when the player is on the world map.
Good news is it does remember to load on the world map. But bad news is it doesn't keep the progress the player made in said room; It loads you in the map room, but all the levels are locked again.
Is there a way to change this using the current save system I have? If anyone needs to see the code, please let me know and i'll be happy to provide it. It is essentially the same as the linked tutorial.
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2021.11.27 09:27 Mobotechinfo Oppo Reno 7 Vs Oppo Reno 7 Pro| #mobile #price #short #battery #comparison #storage #oppo #new #news
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2021.11.27 09:27 ChangeWinter6643 What do you think of Brazil?
2021.11.27 09:27 Jevsom Magyarország jobban teljesít!
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2021.11.27 09:27 CrypticDicky DogeCoin Wave - MOON TO MARS
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2021.11.27 09:27 Fet-Brakskit i must know
2021.11.27 09:27 ShahanoorMamun Cauliflower Still Life Painting. Watercolor Demonstration.
2021.11.27 09:27 Maleficent_Cap8067 which one i buy?
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2021.11.27 09:27 MichaelMHughes1980 Baby and Dog Make My Today
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2021.11.27 09:27 imthemostrandom First time using starryai, the prompt I gave it was ‘Cherry blossom tree in a Japanese creek’
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